JT Flokstra
Friday, February 28, 2025
Winter? Spring?
Thursday, February 27, 2025
Candle Light
I discovered recently that candle light has more benefits than just a romantic setting. After an afternoon full of wonderful visits, I told Jared that I needed to find someway to turn off my brain (or else it will just be on conversation replay all night). Which I have to wonder is why I may have subconsciously distanced myself from similar "brain on" settings when I am already running on low sleep. Anyways, Jared turned off all the lights and lit the candle that was on the dinning table. Between the fire light and the candle light there was a soft warm glow to the room, and I was able to get my brain into sleep mode as I watched the one little flame on the table. Jade also did pretty well that night and I got a stretch from 11-5!
We both enjoyed the candle light so much that evening that the next evening after we came home from our 4:30 church service Jared lit the candle and turned off the lights again in effort to wined us all down during the quick dinner and bedtime routine. We had a candle light dinner with the four of us which was very lovely. Later at dessert time I added marshmallows and chocolate chips to the little cookies we often have for dessert (More because I needed to stretch the cookies a bit) but Jared saw a flame and s'more ingredients and roasted the marshmallows for us. "This is how memories are made" he said, and it's true. It was a very special time that we had together that is just really so hard to capture on paper. But there is something to gathering around a candle or source of light and focusing only on what the light is shinning on that is really special. This will be one of those memories that will be treasured.